To My Children

There’s so much I want you to know—so much I want to instill in you as you grow into the strong, capable, and wise individuals I know you are meant to be. Life will throw challenges your way, but if you stand firm in who you are, you will never be shaken.

One of the biggest lessons I teach you is to take care of yourself—your mind, your body, your space. Maturity isn’t just about age; it’s about discipline. Keep yourself clean, keep your home in order, and never let your friends or distractions pull you away from who you truly are. Your foundation is everything.

I always tell you, “Don’t let nobody trick you out of your spot,” and “Don’t let nobody sell you no wooden nickels.” In other words, don’t let anyone deceive you, distract you, or lead you away from your purpose. Learn to analyze situations, think for yourself, and act in a way that never compromises your character. I am raising leaders, not followers. And if trouble ever finds you, let it be from a decision you made—not because someone else convinced you to go against your better judgment.

Family and teamwork matter. No one succeeds alone. When you truly understand the power of community—especially the strength of the family you come from—you’ll realize you don’t have to walk this journey alone. Remember, we are a team. We take care of ourselves, each other, and our community. 
Be generous, but never be a fool. 

But above all, I want you to understand this: You were born with something special. A gift. A skill. A mindset that is uniquely yours. That is your key. You don’t have to chase trends or fall for get-rich-quick schemes. Stay true to your blueprint. 
You’ll know you’ve found your purpose when you take a step back from distractions, sit with yourself, and let your spirit do the talking. In those moments, your creativity will flow—through art, music, writing, business, inventions, bartending, juice-making, gardening, cooking. That’s your ticket to wealth. 

Be exactly who you were created to be. Never shrink yourself, never trade authenticity for acceptance, and never forget that you will always need you, so take good care of yourself. 
Always pause, pray, and meditate. That’s when you get closer to your inner self. That’s when you can hear the God in you. That’s when you can be yourself.
Remember, the world needs who you are, authentically, and all of the creativity you have to offer.

With all my love,

Mommy💜💜💜

The Power of a Bedtime Routine: Creating Space for Productivity and Peace

There’s something about ending the day with intention and beginning the next with clarity. For me, my bedtime routine isn’t just about sleep—it’s about setting the tone for the day ahead.

I like to wind down early, usually around 8 or 9 p.m. The world slows, the lights dim, and I allow my body to relax. I block all distractions from the outside world and enjoy home. By settling in early, I can wake up before the world lights up—before the rush, the noise, and the demands of the day.

At 4 a.m., I awaken—not to an alarm blaring, but to the quiet stillness of a brand-new day. I settle into my favorite spot, the side of the couch where sleep often finds me, and I take a deep breath. I sit in the silence, just being. My heart beats steadily, reminding me that I am alive, healthy, and here.

Before I do anything else, I thank God for another day. Another chance. Another opportunity to live with purpose. I feel gratitude settle over me like a warm embrace. In these moments, I listen—to my thoughts, to the rhythm of my breath, to the whisper of what’s ahead. I take this time to plan, to set my intentions, to move into the day with clarity instead of chaos.

Once I’ve had this quiet moment to myself, I move into my morning—daily hygiene, checking in with clients, then stepping into my 9-to-5. The day begins, full of motion and responsibility, but because I’ve started with peace, I can carry it with me.

Evenings are for reconnecting—with my little ones, with my home, with myself. I check in, we share our day, we eat, and then I ease into my own work—helping clients, organizing my thoughts into a to-do list so that nothing lingers in my mind overnight.

By 9 p.m., the world slows again, and I follow suit. I let go of the day, releasing it so I can embrace the next one fully. As Glorilla said it so eloquently, “At the end of the day, the has got to end.”

A bedtime routine isn’t just about getting sleep—it’s about creating space for productivity, peace, and intention. When you set yourself up for rest, you set yourself up for success.

What does your nighttime routine look like? And if you don’t have one yet, what small shift could you make today to create a more peaceful tomorrow?

Sincerely, Sky

Reclaiming My Time: Saying Goodbye to Mindless Scrolling

I recently made a decision that felt both simple and significant—I deleted Facebook and TikTok from my phone. Not because they’re inherently bad, but because they were quietly stealing moments that belonged to me, my children, my writing, and my business.

Social media is a powerful tool. It connects us, teaches us, and gives us a platform to share our thoughts. But for me, it had become more of a distraction than a resource. Mindless scrolling was taking time away from the things I truly love and the things I want to create.

So, I’m getting back to what fulfills me. Writing. Blogging. Pouring into my passions without the constant pull of notifications and endless feeds. I may still log in from my computer to share my posts, but I refuse to put those apps back on my phone—because that makes it too easy to slip back into old habits. And let’s be real, ain’t nobody got time for that.

This is my reset. My way of being intentional with my time. If you’ve been feeling the weight of distraction, maybe it’s time to take a step back too. You’d be surprised how much clarity comes when you stop scrolling and start living.

Reclaiming My Time: Saying Goodbye to Mindless Scrolling

I recently made a decision that felt both simple and significant—I deleted Facebook and TikTok from my phone. Not because they’re inherently bad, but because they were quietly stealing moments that belonged to me, my children, my writing, and my business.

Social media is a powerful tool. It connects us, teaches us, and gives us a platform to share our thoughts. But for me, it had become more of a distraction than a resource. Mindless scrolling was taking time away from the things I truly love and the things I want to create.

So, I’m getting back to what fulfills me. Writing. Blogging. Pouring into my passions without the constant pull of notifications and endless feeds. I may still log in from my computer to share my posts, but I refuse to put those apps back on my phone—because that makes it too easy to slip back into old habits. And let’s be real, ain’t nobody got time for that.

This is my reset. My way of being intentional with my time. If you’ve been feeling the weight of distraction, maybe it’s time to take a step back too. You’d be surprised how much clarity comes when you stop scrolling and start living.

Sometimes, You Have to Pause to Keep Going

Take a moment to reset—not because you want to, but because you need to. The world glorifies nonstop grinding, but the truth is, you can’t pour from an empty cup. Rest is productive. Clarity comes in stillness. Strength is restored in the pause.

This is your reminder: It’s okay to step back. It’s okay to choose yourself. The work, the responsibilities, and the to-do lists will still be there, but you will return better—clearer, stronger, and more aligned.

Give yourself permission to reset. Your future self will thank you.